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Whenever you think about it, pornographic movies are a little ridiculous. The men are impossibly proportioned, the sex is entirely for the man’s benefit, and the man shows all of the intimacy and emotional variety of a sponge. In short, it really is sex perfectly tailored to men! No surprises then that once we try it with our partners, the usual responses is negative… really negative.
While which may seem the end of it, most of us know (Either from personal experience or from watching the recent proliferation of sex tapes via the internet) that a lot of people are having sex that could make any adult celebrity proud. The question is: what are they doing that most guys aren’t?
Most women are willing to experiment with some elements of porn-star sex, they just do not like the other elements. Unsurprisingly, women find a total lack of intimacy a large turn-off: after all it may be anyone underneath your favorite star and he’d have sex exactly the same! There is a key message for men everywhere: don’t ever feel that your hips moving like a jackrabbit can ever replace basic intimacy!
Often in these movies, the guys act in a really dominant way. Although this may seem like a bad thing to try within your sex life, in fact this is often an issue that guys forget: just ensure not to confuse being manly with being mean! It is okay to act dominant and in-control during sex, for a lot of women it is a key included in the sex fantasy.
In porn everything is done for the man’s benefit, which is one of several reasons why women don’t usually like watching it. If you want to try these kind of acts in real-life, they should be about both of your pleasures. The cowgirl, for instance, is mostly used to get some ‘good’ shots in movies, whereas in real life it’s an excellent way to give her a G-spot orgasm. However not all sex acts that occur in porn are about her pleasure, so the question is how do issues that seem entirely about the guy’s pleasure become an issue that she will want to do.
That’s where making sure that you’ve got great adult content sex is actually important. Sex should often be able getting to the goal the place you get pleasure from touching her and she gets pleasure from touching you. A great example of this is anal sex. A whole lot of guys just ‘stick it in’ hurting her (As well as possibly themselves!) in the act, however if done correctly in order that you ensure that it is pleasurable to her throughout, anal sex should stimulate the erogenous zones in an alternative way to ‘regular sex’.
While there are better ways to learn than watching these kinds of movies, you’ll find lessons to be learned. You should never consider going out of your way to repeat the sexual acrobatics of your favorite star, but there is nothing wrong with using some techniques within the right way.
