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Pornography gets a bad rap, and not without some justification. Yet despite issues with it, pornography in many different forms continues to be enjoyed by men (and women). Since frequent ejaculation is a component of penis health, the masturbatory aid can be seen as conducive to a healthy activity. But it is not simply for solo use; pornography is often used as a way to stimulate better sex for a couple.
When individuals think of pornography, X-rated videos and pictures are what usually come to mind. Yet pornography does not have to be relegated strictly to the visual realm. Some couples may see that audio-based porn could be more up their alley.
For instance, simply “talking dirty” may stimulate sexual interest in a whole new way. If a few tends to use technical terms when referring to their organs or their actions, they could respond positively to getting “down and dirty” with their language during sex.
Role-playing is yet another option. A few decides on a sex-based scenario and takes on the guise of characters in that scenario. For example, a man may play a policeman pulling over a woman for speeding. The woman explains the sexual favors she would do to get out of receiving a ticket, and also the couple moves forward from there.
Or some couples may simply enjoy having sex while listening to (but not watching) an excellent adult content video. The sounds of other couples moaning and groaning may stimulate more than one’s audio senses.
As always, “traditional” pornography is also a worthy option. Assuming that both partners are captivated in exploring this together, it still helps to go over a few things in advance:
Comfort level. Are both partners equally interested, or is just one “pushing” another? There’s not necessarily anything wrong with asking about it, but partners need to be sensitive and understand that some individuals simply may not be receptive.
Genre. A man could be intensely into a pornographic video through which one guy is serviced by a bevy of beautiful women. His mate may also be into this – but then again, she very well may not. It is a good idea to ascertain in advance what areas of pornography a few desires to explore; generally speaking, it’s usually best to start with fairly “straightforward” porn.
Share. Couples should establish that sharing their thoughts about the porn – whether during or after the viewing – is acceptable and can also lead to better sex. As an example, a woman might want to show that the position a few is using onscreen may very well be a whole lot of fun, or perhaps a man may want to say that the way the actress is stroking the actor’s penis is exactly the way he likes to be fondled. It is also okay to continue this conversation when the couple has moved on to engaging in sex themselves. Saying, “Can you enter me the way he did?” or, “Try holding me that way” while in the midst of lovemaking can be valuable.
