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Pornography gets a bad rap, and not without some justification. Yet despite issues with it, pornography in several different forms continues to be enjoyed by men (and women). Since frequent ejaculation is a component of penis health, the masturbatory aid can be seen as conducive to a healthy activity. But it is not simply for solo use; pornography is usually used as a way to stimulate better sex for a couple.
When folks think of pornography, X-rated videos and pictures are what usually come to mind. Yet pornography will not have to be relegated strictly to the visual realm. Some couples may find that audio-based porn could possibly be more up their alley.
As an example, simply “talking dirty” may stimulate sexual interest in a whole new way. If a couple tends to use technical terms when referring to their organs or their actions, they can respond positively to getting “down and dirty” with their language during sex.
Role-playing is yet another option. A few decides on a sex-based scenario and takes on the guise of characters in that scenario. For example, a man may play a policeman pulling over a woman for speeding. The woman explains the sexual favors she would do to get out of receiving a ticket, and the couple moves forward from there.
Or some couples may simply enjoy having sex while listening to (although not watching) an adult material video. The sounds of other couples moaning and groaning may stimulate more than one’s audio senses.
As always, “traditional” pornography can also be a worthy option. Assuming that both partners are interested in exploring this together, it still helps to talk about a few things in advance:
Comfort level. Are both partners equally interested, or is one “pushing” another? There is certainly not anything wrong with asking about it, but partners need to be sensitive and recognize that some individuals simply may not be receptive.
Genre. A man might be intensely into a pornographic video through which one guy is serviced by a bevy of beautiful women. His mate may also be into this – but however, she well might not. It’s a good idea to determine in advance what areas of pornography a few desires to explore; generally speaking, it’s usually best to begin with fairly “straightforward” porn.
Share. Couples should establish that sharing their thoughts about the porn – whether during or after the viewing – is acceptable and can lead to better sex. For example, a woman might want to point out that the position a few is using onscreen might be a whole lot of fun, or possibly a man might want to say that the way the actress is stroking the actor’s penis is precisely the way he likes to be fondled. It’s also okay to continue this conversation in the event the couple has moved on to engaging in sex themselves. Saying, “Can you enter me the way he did?” or, “Try holding me that way” while in the midst of lovemaking may be valuable.
